Who should make the first move?

It may sound old-school, but different people has different ideas, so who do you think should make the first step in a relationship? The guy or the girl? <3

 

The one who has the guts to...gender has nothing to do with it.

 

I say the guy but all my friends use to just go straight up to a guy, stupidish, but then most girls and sometimes guys go into notepassing....

 

The guy... But it doesnt really matter too much in my opinion.

 

Technically the guy... But I don't care.

 

HOpefulli the guy, cuz they sometimes are more outgoing and im really shy, so that makes it easier for me.

 

Who ever feels more comfortable, i just hate when its said that the guy HAS to, cause i'd like it if a girl tried something on me first, THATS HOT.

 

I say that the person who would be more outgoing should ask the person who seems more shy. Although sometimes the shy people have to ask the outgoing people because the outgoing people might not notice them otherwise. Meh, relationships aren't exactly my strong point. I'm a logic person myself.

 

I'm to shy to take the first step, if he don't do something, nothing happend xD

 

Who ever has the Cohones!

Nah things like that are very situational, if a person drops some hints that they may want you to make thier move then go ahead if not you might get "Woah...I thought we were friends"

 

That is probably the most akward situation there is, LOL.

That would completely suck.

 

I almost always let the girl make the first move. Sometimes - very few times - I see a girl who's just too hot to let slide on by, so I'll start up a conversation but ultimately still leave it up to them to show interest.

It helps to be good-looking. Not a requirement, though.

 

I always want the guy to make the first move unless i can ABSOLUTELY positively feel it through my guts that he likes me.
I love shy boys, they're soo cute :yup:

 

whichever one feels like taking the risk i made the first move with my current guy

 

lol me too! i was just like fuck it, take it or leave it.
and what ya know, we've been going out for 2 years and counting :lol:

 

wow 2 years is a long time, congrats lol

 

Thank You :tehe:

 

i dont think it really matters, but i gotta agree with dahero, when a girl makes the first move, it boosts the guy's confidence like 3000%, and it is definitely hot.

 

Thanks mate, it's kinda funny we think of it this way, because I know a lot of skanky girls in my school, and now a days, its normal for a girl to make the move first, but not for the good reason.

 

im a guy myself,, and personally, i always think its right for myself to make the first move to show the girl you are definitely interested <3 xx