Who should make the first move?

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  1. ihateregister22

    ihateregister22 Level I

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    It may sound old-school, but different people has different ideas, so who do you think should make the first step in a relationship? The guy or the girl? <3
     
  2. Icegoten

    Icegoten Level III

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    The one who has the guts to...gender has nothing to do with it.
     
  3. kelc3949

    kelc3949 Level I

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    I say the guy but all my friends use to just go straight up to a guy, stupidish, but then most girls and sometimes guys go into notepassing....
     
  4. CHticker

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    The guy... But it doesnt really matter too much in my opinion.
     
  5. 777

    777 Level I

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    Technically the guy... But I don't care.
     
  6. Digitype

    Digitype Level I

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    HOpefulli the guy, cuz they sometimes are more outgoing and im really shy, so that makes it easier for me.
     
  7. dahero18

    dahero18 Level II

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    Who ever feels more comfortable, i just hate when its said that the guy HAS to, cause i'd like it if a girl tried something on me first, THATS HOT.
     
  8. Istoph_domo

    Istoph_domo Level I

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    I say that the person who would be more outgoing should ask the person who seems more shy. Although sometimes the shy people have to ask the outgoing people because the outgoing people might not notice them otherwise. Meh, relationships aren't exactly my strong point. I'm a logic person myself. ;)
     
  9. Dadahl

    Dadahl Newbie

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    I'm to shy to take the first step, if he don't do something, nothing happend xD
     
  10. H3nry

    H3nry Level III

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    Who ever has the Cohones!

    Nah things like that are very situational, if a person drops some hints that they may want you to make thier move then go ahead if not you might get "Woah...I thought we were friends" o_O
     
  11. dahero18

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    That is probably the most akward situation there is, LOL.

    That would completely suck.
     
  12. dreamlorde

    dreamlorde Level III

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    I almost always let the girl make the first move. Sometimes - very few times - I see a girl who's just too hot to let slide on by, so I'll start up a conversation but ultimately still leave it up to them to show interest.

    It helps to be good-looking. Not a requirement, though.
     
  13. pjkamelo

    pjkamelo Level I

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    I always want the guy to make the first move unless i can ABSOLUTELY positively feel it through my guts that he likes me.
    I love shy boys, they're soo cute :yup:
     
  14. hungryhippo

    hungryhippo Newbie

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    whichever one feels like taking the risk :) i made the first move with my current guy
     
  15. pjkamelo

    pjkamelo Level I

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    lol me too! i was just like fuck it, take it or leave it.
    and what ya know, we've been going out for 2 years and counting :lol:
     
  16. dahero18

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    wow 2 years is a long time, congrats lol :p
     
  17. pjkamelo

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    Thank You :tehe:
     
  18. mjnskivt

    mjnskivt Level III

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    i dont think it really matters, but i gotta agree with dahero, when a girl makes the first move, it boosts the guy's confidence like 3000%, and it is definitely hot.
     
  19. dahero18

    dahero18 Level II

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    Thanks mate, it's kinda funny we think of it this way, because I know a lot of skanky girls in my school, and now a days, its normal for a girl to make the move first, but not for the good reason.
     
  20. xxmidnytxx

    xxmidnytxx Newbie

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    im a guy myself,, and personally, i always think its right for myself to make the first move to show the girl you are definitely interested <3 xx