*insert obligatory one-liner to get post count up* I'm personally a firm believer of 'everything happens for a reason'. I'm not a particularly religious person, so I won't vehemently insist that any number of deities controls every aspect of our lives. Of course, I'm also more of a go-with-the-flow type, so that works well for me, however, I imagine if you really didn't like how something in your life turned out or will turn out, then you can fix it. Whether the fixing leads to good or bad, who knows.