For love or money?

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by Angelika, Feb 5, 2008.

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  1. weldn

    weldn Level II

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    Can i choose both?
    just kidding :tehe:

    Money isn't that important, especially when you start to work,
    and are too busy to get the chance to spend them.
    Studying, learning, playing with cheaper choices isn't that hard anyway.
     
  2. Shyr

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    Eew. Christian chat? Whatever, I'll put my two cents in. I don't think there's a hell of a lot wrong with marrying for money.
     
  3. waatp42

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    Well I married for love after waiting 40 odd years for the right girl...she definitely married for money :arf:
     
  4. krilas

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    Rather than comparing such extremes, because it is highly dubious that my love would be someone that is so poor, I chose love because a life of wealth doesn't really suit me all that well. Having people to understand and care for you is more important IMO.
     
  5. Lightning

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    Well, it depends on how rich you are.

    Say you are pretty darn rich, okay? You meet this really nice person, and you feel a connection. But, the problem is that one that is pretty rich vs. ones that are poorer are hard to mix because of the major difference in lifestyle.

    So, I'll probably marry somebody that comes from a decent family, and that can overcome the financial aspect.
     
  6. Sita Moon

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    Well, I was brought up the believe that the guy is supposed to care for his wife.
    So, money.

    Unless I was head over heels in love with the guy and we believed we were soul mates, ect ect ect..
    Then love. :3


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    My dream life is having a boy and a girl, living in a household with both of us [ my husband & I ] having successful careers.
    :yup:
     
  7. crssnate

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    I chose love because i mean serisoully who wants love over money
    i would so want love its not even a contest with me
     
  8. jackymiki

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    when i have money, anybody runs to me. and one day i find the love. :D
     
  9. Rhett

    Rhett Level IV

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    a little of both. I'm not going to marry a hobo, but at the same time, I'm not going to marry a billionaire that I have nothing in common with.
     
  10. ShinyDraik

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    marrying for love of course...
    everyone here who´s ever been in love
    with a person knows what I´m talkin´ about ;)

    Life´s a difficult thing, and there so much things
    to discover, but what´s all this worth, when
    you can´t share it with someone?
    Being happy and finding this one person
    that makes you happy until you die.

    being in love with it until the end.

    That´s my definition of life´s sense.

    I already found this person so long ago,
    for us the world is such a paradise, and
    everyday´s great cause we spend it together.
    And from the very first day, I didn´t give
    shit if was poor or rich or anything else.

    being in love is worth more than any
    money in the world
    :yup:
     
  11. Henry

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    Love. I don't see why I can't be the one making the money and she can just take care of the kids in the castle I have. ;D
     
  12. ketomi

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    I'm going to marry a millionaire. but then again there are only a hand full of millionaires, and sooooo many of us, average people. so, odds are, you wont marry some SUPER RICH GUY/GIRL. i would marry some one with money, and is WILLING to actually SPEND some money. whats the point marrying a rich guy/girl, if they are stingy and wont buy you anything?so back to the original question, i would rather go with money, even though i am contradicting myself.
     
  13. statter

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    Definitely love, I would rather die happy by choosing a person I love than a person I choose because of their money.
     
  14. gregoden52

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    I have to go with money. Money solves almost everything...lol
     
  15. keevarr

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    Money.
    You can just get them to buy themselves some plastic surgery :D
     
  16. Fexxel

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    Sorry to say it but I say money. Not only would you probably get unhealthy if you live in a cardboard box outside but you'd have no privacy or anything. And in this economic struggle that we are going through- money is the way to go.
     
  17. gregoden52

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    Yeah I know...the economy is terrible so money would probably be the better choice lol.
     
  18. Lightning

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    Love...I mean, when I marry, I'll marry somebody that is not extremely poor and that I love. Don't think you can't have a combination of both. There are about billions of people out there, half of them are opposite your gender. So, I would just wait my turn until I find my mate :D.
     
  19. ceneret0023

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    actually the world population is like some 70% girls 30% guys or some wierd ratio like that so guys good luck to us :) and i would probably marry for money... i mean hey i'm not gonna work so somebody has too XD
     
  20. Carel

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    Money on my first marriage. Love on my second marriage after I divorce the first and take half of his belongings. ^_^
     
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