Being mean vs Being good.

How should the perfect man/woman be? Always good and always satisfying your requests or just mean and trying to tease you and spend a lot of time for the simplest of things?

Debate <3

 

Both, some days I'm gonna want them to be all nice and other days I would want a bit of a tease. It depends on my mood.

 

I think being extreme on either of those are kinda annoying when it happen on an almost daily basis, timing matter the most I guess, like knowing when to be and what to be. XD

 

I believe when you think about others the same way as you think for yourself and you are good to other God helps you in every problem and you succeed in your life

 

I think people should treat others how they would like to be treated, i think everyone has a mean streak but as long as you're not a total bitch i think its fine.

 

I vote in between. Be assertive, but gentleness and kindness is crucial to building any kind of relationship. I'm a firm believer of karma, therefore I do my best to be good to others....except TNT, lol!

 

speaking of karma and TNT, thats why we get iced :lol:

 

Yeah, firmly in the middle would seem to be the best bet, here. You get the high road and low road in a tolerable mix.

 

I think you should just be yourself...faking it won't help you get girl/boyfriends

 

I think a lot of this depends on the situation you are in.

In some situations, you'd no doubt prefer a subservient spouse.

 

Agreed. You don't have to be part of the lowest group in the social pyramid. :maha:

 

If I had to choose between those 2 options, I'd rather have a bad man...
Good men are so predictable! And I get bored of them really fast.
I like to be challenged, I like to argue my points. If I wanted a man who acts like a puppy, I'd buy myself a puppy and save all the trouble.

But I agree with most of you that the perfect man should be balanced between both good and evil. (Just a little bit more evil for my man) XD

 

I want a mean man. Not saying that I want someone who'll beat me and stuff, but a good man is just too damn boring. I've let so many guys down because they were "good". Seriously, I cannot stress how much it annoys me when a guy is too nice, and it's really weird.

I want a man where I'm not sure he'll stay with me, even though he will. I would hate that he told me he loved me every day etc.
I don't know. It's ridiculous, but I need a really mean man XD LOL.

 

It's good to know =)) but I only been with girls who want the "real nice" guys and I wasn't up their standards :yup:

Anyway, I've seen a tendency of girls to be AMAP [as mean as possible]

 

I like girls that are nice to me but kinda d baggy to others especially people they don't like. I know it's kinda assholish but it's what i dig.

 

I like good guys, but not to much, they have to be mean sometimes.. but then again, not to mean :arf:

..it doesn't really hurt to be mean to someone who's talking poo poo and just annoys you, that happens when somebody steps on MY nerve >

 

I think it's kind of a mix, like i think its always better to be a good person but then you can get mean people that will walk all over you, i dont think its a good thing to be mean but rather to know how to deal with people that are.

 

Being nice is better than being mean, i say it like why is there a point in being mean it is not exactly hard to be nice.

 

But the occasional teasing does make it fun, it's kinda like you are stil flirting even while in the relationship in order to keep that fire burning.