Looks or personality?

Looks first because that's the first impression, then personality to make sure they're compatible.

 

This is a very good question,
I believe there are people who will choose personality

for me, personally I will choose outside looks

 

Looks. Also, cannot be insane or stupid as fuc.

I know for a fact I'm an incredibly shallow person. Personality and all that is nice, but in the end, I'm not going to be attracted to you if you're not up to whatever standards I hold. I just won't be and that's how it is.
Obviously I won't be attracted more than sexually if she has an awful personality, but who needs that anyway~

 

I would say I pick the outside look first,
personality come later

 

looks for just saying they are hot or not. Personality is for me the biggest thing to fall in or out of love. XD
If the guy is fit but is a jerk, I'd probs not even want to come near.
If the guy is ugly (such a bad word) but a total sweetheart, I'd love him.

Any one who says personality comes first is lying. You don't know all the persons in the world. So when you go out, the first guy you see, is the first guy that is fit.
^^

 

I think personality is more important, looks are just a bonus. XD

 

I think it's funny that people say that no one can go after personality only.
Yes, looks does CATCH you. But if you then don't like their personality, you'll reject them. And I think anyone who says they are only a 100% after looks are lying. NOBODY wants to be with the hottest jerk in the world. (Okay, if he had a lot of money, some would ).

But I've seen some really hot guys that first caught me, then threw me off with their ugly personality!!

 

Well what I mean by looks goes first, is that you don't know the person at first. So there must be something that went to talk to him. & when you do personality kicks in for me.
Don't know if it's for the rest of the people also.

What if an "ugly" (really don't like the term) person had a super personality and an other guy (not necessary great looking) is a jerk.
You would go to the other guy & hopefully reject them after knowing he is a jerk.


I don't think there is a scenario that looks isn't looked at first. (exclude involving alcohol) If there is, then I will gladly know xD
^ for those saying they do not look like looks

 

Most people will say personality but i don't think any1 will want some1 that is fat and ugly to be their GF. For me it will 60% looks and 40% personality.

 

I agree you do need that attractiveness, but what may be ugly to you may not be to someone else

 

IMO, both are important - I'd say personality is more necessary than looks, though. What I mean is, good looks would draw me in to a guy, but you really can't have a relationship with someone who has a horrible personality.

 

Well obviously when I first look at the person, I'll go for the look. But if I have to choose one, I'd go for personality. If you got an ugly personality, your looks will be for nothing and will just be a turn off. If you got an ugly personality, your look will turn out to be ugly too.

 

Can I say a bit of both? I don't think it should solely depend on just looks or personality, because you would have to be able to stand looking at the person.. and well if you don't like how they look, it's.. yeah. But I would say personality outweighs looks. ^_^

 

Mostly looks because that is what draws people in to learn about your personality.

 

Of course looks, personality is something uggly people say. :lol:

 

although personality is important, we are all attracted to good looks whether we like to admit it or not.

 

I believe it's pretty much 50-50.
Personality is more important, but looks is the thing that gets you attracted to someone.

 

I mean I like a balance of both. They can't look like a morlock even though they have a banging personality. Similarly they can't look like a super model and be rude and gross.

 

Personality is a must but looks are also a big factor to me too... just not as much as personality.

 

i agree with this, looks are not the most important