Do you think that if the process of chasing someone is tedious and confusing and it seems to go no where, then there's possibly no relationship ever to happen? People pick gf/bf cuz of looks often times too and I think that's usually one of the things that get people attention. I have this guy I liked for a year, told him I liked him a yr ago but he rejected me and things went awkward for a bit. Then it goes really weird from then on. He talks to me sometimes, msges me first but eventually he just seems bored/annoyed at the stuff I say {I feel} and sometimes the convo trails off. We both use this asian forum {he doesnt go on anymore} but once in awhile I see him coming to my profile even though I don't post much and you know how sometimes when you're with someone you get this sorta "can't do the wrong things so gotta be careful" sorta feeling. We used to talk late a night and stuff but yeah we don't talk on the phone and I don't know what to say to him. Haha yeah we're just..we WERE a little bit friends maybe we're acquaintances now? I had a rly good talk with him yesterday and spilled a lot of unhappy stuff on him and he talked to me till 4AM and crap. I'm so confused i'm getting mixed feelings but I don't wanna type anymore; Chances of him liking me is probably none since it's been a year tho right?
I don't think so.. at all. I actually had the "same thing" (not quite, but similar) with one of my brother's friends. We had a thing going on for 3 years (LOL I know), well, mostly I had a crush on him, and we talked sometimes, then we didn't talk for a long time, then we talked a bit and on and on. Now he graduated from my school, so things got a little bit less complicated (one of my brother's REALLY good friends, and my brother felt so weird about it), and we started seeing each other, and we're almost an item xD What I'm trying to say is, even though it's been a long time, you can still have feelings for each other, or they can come :3 And the fact that he looks up your profile, must mean something c; And what you said about him feeling annoyed about what you said, well he wouldn't write to you if he felt that way ! What I did with this guy, I made him write to me, because he also seemed annoyed when I texted him. So I stopped, and he just texted me every weekend and stuff :b so sometimes a little bit of distance can be good, imo. But to answer your question (again); it's not impossible that he likes you even tho it's been a year!
Feelings are still there. Never go away. Although.. you say he's Asian. So that might be replaced with ping pong or badminton or something :/ Okay, so here's a nice quote I like to think about: "Men marry women because they never want them to change. But they do. Women marry men because they see the man they can change them into. But they can't." And that's why relationships suck.