Okay so, I had a best friend that I've known for like.. 5 years. We were ALWAYS hanging out, and I was almost living at her place from time to time because we spent so much time together. Obviously I got to know her family really well. Her parents are very different from mine, they're a bit younger. I think they're about 45 now, whereas my parents are both 52.. Her parents have always been very "youngish", I saw them more as my friends as opposed to my friends parents. With that I mean we always made jokes about each other, hung out with her parents and so on. This was most with her father, we were really close. When I would get really drunk in the city I would sleep there because they lived in the city, and I lived with my parents about 10 km away (and very bad public transport). So they picked me up and tucked me in a bed if I would get really drunk (that happened quite a lot). When I was not with my friend, that is. Her name is Lisa btw So for 5 years we were like this. Did everything together. Then one day I think something snapped in both of us. We always had arguments and disagreed, but it wasn't really a big thing. This time it just went too far, and we didn't talk since. Her dad would write to me, asking me if I would come visit and how I was. Her mother I had no contact with, we weren't really as close as I were with her dad. I always felt this kind of "flirting" with him, but pushed it away, thinking it was a sick thought. Lisa moved away from her parents last year, I dad a bit before her. So I thought it was weird that her dad wrote to me like we were still friends. I mean, this was like a break up with my friend, it took a toll on me. But that her dad would write to me was a bit weird? Didn't think much of it, just talked a bit to him. So now. Today. He wrote to me asking how I was again. So I answered him. This is on facebook btw. So we talked a bit. Then he said I was growing up so much, and I had become such a lady. He asked me when I was going to get married and have kids. I said, well I'm still young you know. He asked if I met the right man yet. Then I said no, it's like nobody wants me. Then he said: "If only you were 10 years older!!" I was soo shocked. like wtf. What do you want me to answer to that??? So I pushed it away, telling him I had to go, so I think he might've gotten the message.. Isn't this just SO FAR OUT THERE? I mean.. WHOAH. I can't help but thinking back, did he think anything was gonna happen? And all those things we did together. And he has seen me in my underwear, because I would walk around like that at their place because I literally felt like their daughter. Just had to tell someone. All I can think right now is just.. Gosh.
Looks like he has a little thing for you. Hopefully he got the message, and if not, try to make it more clear. As for your friend, hope it works out if that's what you want.
I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking this is too weird. I told my mom about it, and she said she actually wasn't surprised. And come to think about it, I actually remember her asking me if I molested his children sexually or something like that. But my mom really never spent much time with him so she doesn't know him that well. And I am quite sure he has never done anything like that btw! Just hopes he never hints me again, because if I would have to give him a clear message it might get awkward. But it's never going to work out with Lisa again, I am kinda relieved we don't talk in a way. Sad but relieved because I felt like a different person with her. And she made me act like a total bitch towards others..