Have you ever had a crush...

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  1. Tofurky

    Tofurky Level IV

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    on someone that was already dating someone? =S
    No, I'm not talking about you having a crush on Brad Pitt, but finding out he's taken :p
     
  2. Phee

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    yeah. :(
     
  3. Tofurky

    Tofurky Level IV

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    Hey Skeem! What's up?

    What happened? :nope:
     
  4. sukie

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    Yeah, kinda.
    I was dating a guy for like one day :)D) and then his ex-girlfriend showed up. From then on they were back together and I was pretty pissed. I can laugh about it now but back then I had a really hard time.
     
  5. filthy

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    Totally been there.
     
  6. glitch245

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    I think that plenty of people have been there or can relate to it in their own way. I know i can!
     
  7. fivedrinksin

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    hah, yep! i agree with glitch - a lot of people have felt that way, one way or another.

    as for myself, i had a crush on this guy a couple years ago. he had a girlfriend at the time. then they broke up 'cause he figured out his girlfriend was a complete psycho, and now we're going out. 8D happy ending, ftw. that worked out pretty well on my end.
     
  8. bladeoftalwar

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    yeah of course. it happens all the time :)

    you cant always choose who you fall for
     
  9. Phee

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    Nothing happened...he was one of my good friends. And, well, we're kind of still good friends. Sorta. :|
     
  10. darthfiendfyre

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    I have been in this situation a few times. My guess is that most peope have.
     
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    Sadly, i have :( wasn't the best moment of my life..
     
  12. Xizavo

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    I have.
    He's going out with one of my best friends. :(
     
  13. booboo

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    I had a crush on my 8th grade math teacher lol
     
  14. Hally

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    Oh lord. Don't even get me started on this. For some reason or another, human beings are MORE likely to have feelings for those who they 'can't have', whether because they're taken or because their feelings aren't reciprocated. The last girl I really really liked, I didn't like until after she 'dumped' me. It was a camp fling. We made out at the campfire, and then the next morning, she decided that she wasn't into being with a guy at the moment, and, oh wait. A few days later, I realize I like her.

    As for your original question, no, to be honest, I haven't had a crush on someone who was already going out with someone. I have fooled around with girls with boyfriends before. But I go to an all-guys school, which eliminates the drama of crushes and stuff like that. And no, we're not all homosexual guys, so don't ask.
     
  15. Smelly

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    lol hally :p

    it's always the same i agree, that you only fully appreciate your feelings when you can't have them.
     
  16. ali913xx

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    Oh ditto ditto ditto.
    I never had a great relationship with my bf, and I broke up with him with no regrets on it for five months, until he started dating someone else. From that point I was much more into him then I had been at any point when we were dating. :lol:
     
  17. Hally

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    Yep. It goes back to the fact that people want what they can't have. There was a girl I met on a cruise. I got her to like me, by being really cocky around her, and not saying anything to the effect of 'i like you'. She was crazy about me. It was only on the last morning of the cruise, when I was looking for her, that it finally registered that I liked her. Because she lived 4 provinces away, and I couldn't be with her.

    Which leads me to believe that attraction is flawed and people can never be in successful relationships. But I'm just jaded, right?
     
  18. avblue

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    Yyyyyup. :\ Had a crush on a guy, found out he was single, so I tried making a move, only to find out later on he was still in love with his ex. -__- That was kinda sucky, but I moved on. :p
     
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    Yes, and then I dated him.


    But it's better not to be a home-wrecking ho like me~

    :)
     
  20. Tofurky

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    Haha lol :p
    Some of my friends go to all guy school. I always ask them how they survive :D
     
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