Welcome, and I think you should read the rules and posting threads before you continue it may answer your questions. You can find them here: Rules http://www.neofriends.net/announcements-rules-and-information-f73/site-rules-and-ranks-t11757.html How to rack up POSTS and CASH responsibly! http://www.neofriends.net/announces/how-to-rack-up-posts-and-cash-responsibly-t19324.html
If your too lazy to read the rules. Wich you shouldnt be... Just Post, be Helpful. NO SPAMMING. Write Guides. Be cool. Be on a boat. Be like a boss.
I still think that everyone joining should read this guide here: other-guides-f81/starting-out-on-neofriends-newbies-guide-t23893.html but untill it is not obvious for everybody I won't get tired of linking it... Welcome to Neofriends btw..