just wants to get you into bed? well as you may or may not know im muslim, so sex before marriage is a no no question. This guy, is getting rlly close to me and saying he loves me. and tries every moment to kiss me. it's quite annoying to be quite honest. so how do i get rid of them without hurting him. Since he is the friend of my best friend. :arf:
I usually go; look, you're sweet and all. but no thank you or something like that. It also depends on the person. Sometimes you can just say get the fuck outta here and stop trying these things!! (Like, saying it straight as it is xD) But if this guy keeps trying even though you showed no interest, then he is just stupid. You should tell him you don't want anything romantic, I dont know if you don't wanna tell him about the muslim thing? But I think you should, that would probably hurt him less, since there is a reason why you dont want to have sex with him. Last option is to ignore him. But I'd prefer just being honest..
He's your best friend, you can always say something along the lines of "I'm sorry but I don't want anything to ruin our friendship" etc
kick him in the balls, thatll make him stay away from you on a serious note, just stop talking to him if hes being a bitch. if that doesnt work out or if thats not a possibility, just confront him.
Thanks! I talked to my friend about it. it is beginning to work ^^ btw Freja, he knows i am. so that won't work haha.
Speaking from past experiences ect. Blunt is best. Make your own feeling as clear as possible. Make sure to mention the fact you don't belive in sex outside of marrige as much as possible. If all fails try and hook him up with someone else....