How to *GET CHICKS* and *BE COOL* - Revamped!

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  1. DeNo

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    Nup.
     
  2. Rach

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    So this is how you spent your 200th post, woo ;)

    Tip #1 ... as a member of the female population, I agree totally ... "friendly but not overbearing". There's such a thing as playing too hard to get ... and that just tends to drive us away rather than anything else. At the same time, being too clingy is a no-no. We all need our own space! :)
     
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  3. DeNo

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    yea!
    female participation =]
    this is going quite swell.
    you get +rep for actually contributing too haha.
    yea there is, theres a famous movie that goes into how to play 'hard to get' perfectly.
    if this works, then ill be sure to put it up.
     
  4. Rach

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    Mm, is it any good?
    I could do witha fun movie. :)
    I'd give you +rep, but i never seem to be able to do that, sorry :p
     
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    must add.. what not to do.. for example don't always rely on humor it may get you stuck in the friend-zone. Also, the girl will see you as a guy that she can't talk to about serious things. humor can sometime raise an uncomfortable barrier and eventually she will get tired of your antics. Also don't flirt like a crazy man. Hold off a bit, and make sure you compliment other aspects of the girl rather than her appearance. Another thing, don't always be the hopeless romantic type thing and have some vision of you and her having a long relationship. This could make you less likely to be yourself and you will start acting like some love hungry stalker.

    My tips are to take it slow, approach with confidence and make sure you bring a sort of comfortable aura with you. Eventually those butterflies and what-not will subside and you will eventually feel more comfortable in the girls presence. It is not a good idea to become something you are not just to impress the opposite sex, like dotdenz pointed it out be yourself.

    also dotdenz that movie thats out i believe your talking about my best friends girl... i saw it but you can't be too much of a tank.
     
  6. DeNo

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    Hehe i would be honoured to give one... If you flew here to Australia and paid for the tickets?
    Maybe?
    Heh its fine. Feel free to input into this board whenver you feel like.

    yea I'll add what not to do and make everything spankalicious if this turns out well. I tend to orientate more tot he social site and not the technical side of this forum for some reason.. No its not a recent movie, its called Swingers with Vince Vaughan in it.
    What you say has great merit, hehe I'll be sure to put it up later =]
    quite the casanova are you?
     
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    That's actually a total surprise to me. I thought only girls got like that!

    And being funny is the #1 things almost every girl looks for. Make her laugh.
     
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    lets just say i have a way with women.... i just can't help it lol. :lol:
     
  9. DeNo

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    PHEES A GIRLLLLLLLLLL?!
    I never noticed. =O
    Her status was enough to instil fear in me, i never checked the Sex symbol..
    Yea, but if you make her laugh too much in the wrong type of way, its like a one way ticket to the dreaded FRIEND ZONE.

    But yea. shes a girl, she would know =]
     
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    you didn't know that... lol... >:)
     
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    damn. I'm one of the most unfunniest kids you'll ever meet. =[
     
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    well then you better start memorizing some jokes n stuff. lol
     
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    Gnaww thats not helpful at all.

    Sense of humour.. thats a tricky one.. I guess the trick is to be satisfied, happy and humble and the good-natured jokes will come. I think me more relaxed you are, the easier it is to make a girl laugh? I'll use a metaphor I think is quite apt, its like taking a breathe to stabilise the scope before you send of that sniper round :yup:
     
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    eliminate all the rules and have only 1 rule

    rule #1: stop playing video games, kthx bai

    lemme know if this rule helps out better than the others :p
     
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    haha very funny snowmanny .... considering that most girls play some sort of video game. :lol:



    oh and dotdenz ... sense of humor works to a certain extent. Its always a good ice breaker and can be used alot in courtship but ... try not too use humor all the time. like one of my posts stated that if joke around too much eventually she will not take you seriously.
     
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    i guess everyone has to start somewhere , this is a nice guide

    thanks
     
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    hey anonymous and teamfresh. Only reply to this thread if you have any advice. point spamming is frowned upon.
     
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    Re: How to *GET CHICKS* and *BE COOL*

    Before I start spittin wisdom here, is this about getting women into bed or into a relationship?
     
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    Mm, sense of humour is good, but not jokes learned off-by-heart to impress. We like a funny guy, but not a guy that sparks jokes out for the sake of it. :p
     
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    I absolutely love it when a guy shows interest in me, and then walks away. For example if a guy walked up to me and told me he thought I was really pretty (or something similar) and then just walked away and ignored me the entire evening I would DIE to talk to him XD
    I always like to pretend to be hard-to-get because I hate it when guys are "easy". I don't want a guy that any girl can walk up to and just take home xD.

    Humour is an important thing also, I need to be able to laugh with him. It makes both him and me loosen up :3