Okay, my parents are freaking annoying the crap out of me .. Well, the deal is that my parents and I always had this... tense relationship, meaning that my siblings (I'm the youngest) have always been these "nice kids" who never really got wasted or did stupid things - for example my brother who doesn't ever drink - he does go out though, he just always drives and stays sober. And I'm the TOTAL opposite of my siblings. I love them to death, but trust me, we're NOT alike. So my parents couldn't really handle me I guess, we had a lot of huge fights and stuff, so my dad got me and my brother an awesome appartment in our capital (which is kinda far from school also!), and since my brother is in the army, I kinda live there alone. SO! If they "kick" me out, then they must expect me to live by my own rules, right? I mean, as long as I'm an adult and I don't live under their roof anymore, they shouldn't try to tell me what to do. Now, they did the easiest thing, threw me out and stuff. Don't get me wrong, I do love my parents and all that, I just sorta hold a grudge at them for moving me out - even though I insisted myself that I couldn't live with all the fights we had. Then I had a week off from school, and I literally went drinking with some friends thursdag,friday, sunday, (stayed home monday), tuesday, wednesday, thursdag, friday and saturday. My parents picked me up every night because public transportation is CRAP in weekdays. AND NOW THEY FREAKING COMPLAIN. I'm like, you pick me up, that means you don't dissapprove - and it's my week off! And yes, I do admit that I drink too much, and by that I mean - very very much, and I understand that they want to take care of me.. But they just handle it the completely wrong way. But oh wait, this is not the best part yet. My cousin has had some problems with his parents, and he can't take care of school and stuff like that - guess what my parents do? THEY TAKE HIM IN!! I mean, he LIVES with my parents now, and they want to get him on the right track. I'm not abondoning my school, but I'm really tired of it, and how about using your time on me? Sure, they can send me money and hope that I get by but come on! I need you to support me aswell. I know I'm daddys little princess, and he calls me every day and stuff. But now I'm done with school in a few months, I guess I just need to get away from everything. I guess I'll just join the army like my brother, that'll probably get me away from all this xD IDK, I just had to write this down I guess. Parents piss me off so often!!!
Get a grip on yourself! I mean, what are they supposed to do? Just leave you alone without being able to get home? You're their daughter, of course they'll do those things to protect you, not because they're okay with the situation. And yeah they're gonna complain since you're forcing them to pick up your drunk ass every night. Seriously, pull yourself together and be glad that your parents are trying to protect you.
LOL, I know it sounds like I'm whining? But really - putting me by myself just isn't the soloutin, and I've told them that. I need people to give me a reason for staying home - why would I stay home alone when I have my week off from school? :s And actually, I didn't force them to pick me up, I'd rather they didn't and just not tell them I went out.
It's not the part about going out most days when you have a break, that's not really strange. But you should either make plans so that you can get home by public transportation (check bus/train schedules) or make plans with a friend who is also going out, so you have somewhere to sleep without disturbing your parents. It's not like it's hard to do these things. And it sounds like you're whining because you are whining. -_-
I'm sorry to say.. but I agree with Virre on this one XD. It just sounds like they're trying to protect you, as any good pair of parents would do. If they didn't care about you, they would've kicked you out and not help you at all. Sometimes space makes relationships grow stronger. I know that me and my two sisters NEVER got along while we lived under the same roof. But now that we've been on our own for a few years.. we can hang out and not end up wanting to kill each other . Maybe it's the same with you and your parents?
1. ^what virre said 2. you think you're parents are controlling you too much so you go ahead and join the army of all places? lol where's the logic in that?