oy im on the laptop so im not using capitals or whatever. Oksy, so I have a looon story.... I just got back, like literally just got back three seconds ago from my friends house. he picked me up like 1230 ish and we went over to his house and just watched some tv for like an hour. every time we got up to go get something or because we thought his parents were coming we'd come back and hed scooch a little bit closer until after like an hour we were right next to each other and he put his arm around me so were snuggling for a bit for like ten minutes. then we started making out but only for like five minutes, then we had to go because he has to get up in the morning. so he took me home and on the way home he was holding my hand and shit and i asked him about this girl, lets say jenny, that i thought he'd been talking to and he said she likes him but he doesn't like her. okay now here's the backstory on me and him. my best friend lindsay is good friends with him and liked him for a really long time but he didn't like her back. then about a year ago me and him started talking and long story short, he liked me but i sort of strung him along because i didn't want to hurt my best friend lindsay and though i did like him but not that much. so after like a month of that he hooked up with this other girl, say sara, and started dating her so i stopped talking to him. then he started talking to me again and he breaks it off with sara; we keep talking for like a couple months and he eventually tells me that i'm mostly the reason they broke up. so we keep talking, and prom comes around, and he's not asking me out or anything. at this point we haven't done anything but cuddle and hold hands. anyways i'm getting really impatient and upset that he's not asking me and then i hear a rumour that he wants to ask jenny to prom; i confronted him about it but of course he denies it. but i KNOW it's true because i hears it from the different people, who heard it from two people who are his best friends. so we stop talking for like 3 months, once summer starts he starts talking to me but we're just chatting. so around like a month or maybe a few weeks ago we start talking like everyday and flirting and stuff, but i've heard (from lindsay) that he likes jenny and jenny likes him. last weekend at homecoming she was the only girl he danced with; he said he was trying to find me but couldn't. i didn't see him the whole night either. so i just got back from his house now and i don't know what to think, is he just using me? does he intend to go anywhere with this? also, i feel terrible because i'm not good friends with jenny but we run in the same circles and she's honestly a nice girl and it would make things super awkward. so. advice? this is bad. and i sound like a valleygirl. sorry.
on another note, he is a freaking terrible kisser! to all guys! WHY would you keep your mouth open?? are you giving me cpr??? jesus christ. i'm a damn good kisser if i do say so myself and this was wildly disappointing.
Re: poo poo im a cake cake. Lmao sounds like he's playing everyone along and your the main victim He's taking his pick of girls, getting his wicked way then "really liking" whoever else he thinks he can easily get to make him happy. He sounds a right C**T that will just cheat on you. And furthermore, bad kisser - Give up Find someone better phee <3 you deserve the best!
Re: poo poo im a cake cake. Wow, that was an epic story .. surprisingly hard to follow. Statistics show that terrible kissers make for horrible partners, and the relationship is guaranteed to fall through within 2 weeks. And these are statistics, Phee! I don't understand this whole concept of not etcing someone because your best friend likes him, but is apprehensive to make the moves. Bull. Anyway, avoid him like the plague and find someone better who is a good kisser and will give you multiple movie moments where you're out on decking and the moon is shining and you look into each others' eyes and the scene fades to black. BUT I do think awkwardness with Jenny would be awesome! I've had some really fun awkward conversations, like with a girl I went out with who caught me making out with another girl at a party. Long story short, I had a locker next to my ex at school. Now that's awkward! OH. NO WAIT. I had a REALLY awkward one like a week ago.. I was in a room alone with my girlfriend's son, and wow that was awkward. Anyway, I digress. The spam corner should be renamed to the /B/pam corner. lolwut
Ew..bad kissers :/ Aww Phee..shiet like this happens x_x This guy seems so wishy washy. You might wanna talk to him a bit more, and just see if the rumors are true are something. You're so pretty and everything! If he's a bad person then he doesn't deserve you.
Re: poo poo im a cake cake. Hes trying the whole pet store thing... you know he is looking at all the nice little puppies in front of him gets familiar with them and picks the easiest one he thinks is going to be easy training lol.. I KNOW bad analogy. but it seems like he is stringing everyone along. so i would definitely try to find out his true intentions and then decide what you are going to do. I wouldn't let him get under your skin... let him pick his Jenny and try to maintain the friendship if you want. good luck.
See THOSE are the sort of reasons why I hated high school so much and graduated in 3 years lol. IMO forget about the dude if you're interested in someone you need someone that isn't going to confuse the fuck out of you.
Re: poo poo im a cake cake. I like how the quote says "you're not a cake" I wish I was a cake! mmmmm I would eat myself :lol: But yea I knew where the edit button was but mooie already covered that
Sniff thanks guys. Ironically enough my friend, erm, Lucy (what the hell are these names?) is pretty much best friends with Jenny, and early last night we were talking and she actually asked me if i was over (this guy) and I said yes. ugh. I think I'm just going to pretend it never happened, if he tries to do something again- ack I like cuddling too much! but I'll just reject him. UGH. and now our friendship is ruined. maybe i should talk to him about it first? he texted me tihis morning, i texted him back in the afternoon but he didn't text me back all night. so i imed him and now we're texting...he's hanging out with lindsay right now actually and i told him not to say anything about it to her. but i don't know if he will or won't since they're good friends. aaack i just wish the whole thing never happened. Oh no! I digressed into non-capitals!
Re: poo poo im a cake cake. wow that is a drama fest I feel for you Honestly if I were you, If you like him and want to date him or whatever, just ask him upfront at the very least his intentions will be revealed and if he rejects you, it would at least be done with because he sounds crazy flaky not to mention, bad kissers suck so I can understand the pretend it never happened strategy find someone who will give you cuddles and not make you crazy over him being a jerk
Well last night like 10:30ish two of my friends called me up and they wanted to TP his house, so of course I said yes xD We went over and Lindsay must have warned him because they caught us sneaking out of our car; the whole night we spent driving around chasing each other haha, it was fun. but the whole night he barely said hi or talked to me. also I forgot to mention, but monday morning, the morning after, he texted me and i didn't text him back until one ish, then he didn't text me back after hat. so later that night i imed him and he texted me and we chatted but for about 3 seconds. i sent him a text last night around midnightish asking him to hang out so we could talk, but he texted me back this morning saying he has a soccer game til 5. (oh right, the whole day huh -_-). ugh so i don't know what's going to happen.