I'm just wondering what guys would pick and what girls would pick. Go ahead. Do not be afraid, tick the boxes. And ofcourse tell me what you picked <3 .
For a quick one night random club victim; Fit and a good dancer. (But I hate pulling club girls, there all sluts so none actually) For a girlfriend; Im unsure what my main "criteria" would be: A few important factors are: Clever/At least intelligent - I can't stand god damn stupid people! boys or girls! Good personality - need to understand my dodgy sense of humour, not take offense to anything and not be freaked out by my weird and wonderful ways. Be able to hold a good conversation about most things (relates to cleverness that tbh). Up for a good laugh and not boring. And "ok" looking - No matter what anyone says, there has to be SOME PHYSICAL attraction between a couple for it to be a successful and happy relationship. As long as she is mildly pretty (isn't hideous basically) then it has no effect for me
Uh wow haha. I guess a guy doesn't have to be a smart ass, but as long as they use their brain and have common sense, i'm fine with it. I wasn't actually guna tick "good looking" cuz I don't wanna date the hottest guy in the planet, but what my point with that is that I don't want someone who has teeth gaps when they smile, messy hair, stinks, etc xD They have to look presentable, and DECENT looking. It doesn't have to be good. Charming..haha I dunno why I ticked that. Some guys are charming to a degree.
A girl should be: Intelligent Charming Funny I almost put good looking but what I consider good looking might not fit in the "standart" good looking of the "normal" people. As for what I choose... Well, I consider myself intelligent and speaking with someone with an IQ of 60 totally turn me off. I've got a HUGE sense of humour so that's a + too.
rofl "victim" I put funny and intelligent. Those really are my only key must-haves; I really hate idiots and I love to laugh. Also I think I'm pretty damn witty myself. On the subject of intelligence, it's not so much being smart as being bright, being able to comprehend and understand everything. Dullness is wildly unattractive and like I said I absolutely despise stupidity. TBH someone's looks do matter to me at first, as in I won't be attracted to someone or like someone (as in liking that person, not as in having a crush sort of person) right off the bat if they're not good-looking, but if I get to know them and i like them a a person then looks really won't matter. I've liked two guys over the past four years (seriously) and neither were that good-looking. Actually I think a guy who's too good-looking is a bit of a turn-off because they're usually full of themselves, stupid, or cocky. And I've been with a really good-looking guy, I just felt too nervous around him all the time to make it work because I couldn't open myself up to him. Thinking back that was entirely my fault the relationship failed, I was a giant cold ice queen bitch because I blamed him for making me feel so uneasy and therefore I kept feeling less and less at ease; I'd flat out ignore him because I didn't want to talk to him since I felt so uncomfortable doing so. Phew.