Say your ab'ing on a spare and want to transfer the items to your main, is it safer to do this in a trade? or just the "send to a neofriend" option.
Never use 'send to neofriend'. Never, ever, ever. Go through trades. I put my items into trades and then make an offer from the account I want to transfer to. I never make junk offers though. Say the trade is worth 60k, I will offer 25k or something. Then, every so often, when the neopoints are building up on my spare accounts, I'll buy a couple of unbuyable items from the TP and stick them in my SDB for a while. A week or so later, I will stick one of the unbuyables in with my trades to transfer it over. I also send a few neomails back and forth and make it look more 'human'. I've never been frozen using this method.
I usually let np build up in my spares, once enough is there i usually buy some liquid items (usually baby pb, lab map, dubloons). I then put them up for trade with a vague request, dont ask for 500k and then accept 20. Usually i let the trade sit for a week and then offer with my main, or another spare accounts so its harder to find my main heh. Dont put up a trade and offer right away, looks pretty bad. And yeah offer at least 50k on it.
use the "send to neofriends" is safer. and also, if u are afraid of being iced. try sending junk to other people. making it look random kindness