What am i supposed to do?

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  1. LightTiger

    LightTiger Level IV

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    My parents are going through some though S***. Dunno why though, they won't tell me. even though i'm 15. my mom is like all depressed and quiet, and my dad won't even talk. mom says that its not my fault, but i feel pretty darn lonely. :(
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  2. rustyhouse

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    Just be patient; if they don't say anything to you yet they just need some time to get over whatever it is whether it's small or big you shouldn't let it bother you soo much. Eventually they'll let you in on it and hopefully everything gonna be alright.
     
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    hopefullly. :( thanks.
     
  4. rustyhouse

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    You're 15 so just be happy you have a lot of time before you need to be stressing yourself :)

    Edit: And Vancouver is such a nice place to be at :)
     
  5. LightTiger

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    yeah, i luv vancouver. its awesome . anyway, i know what its about now. sorry can't tell you, its sorta private.
     
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    EDIT: sorry, my comp is acting all weird. can a mod delete this post?
     
  7. domini212

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    Do you have an older sibling that might tell you whats going on?
     
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    I don't mean to trivialize your problem, but there is a lot of this kind of stuff in the world today. I am sure with a little online searching, you can find different websites to support you emotionally while you go though this time with you parents. And you've always got us here <3 we tend to be very supportive ^_^
     
  9. hungkungphooie

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    Thats a bummer bra. Your 15 though, you shouldn't stress yourself out over your parents dilemmas, although I know your parents are both important to you. Things will eventually blow over, they always do.
     
  10. Lily

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    Huh, coincidence. My parents are going through something too, but I'm not as young as you, so it's probably a lot harder for you D: Maybe if you try to talk to them about how you feel they'll let you know part of what's going on...parents, though, huh? I feel for you.
     
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    weird, same with me. but its not that bad, their just pissed.
     
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    I had the same problem when I was 12, It is annoying at times. There was nothing I could do so I sat and waited. A few years later everything got better, best of wishes to you.
     
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    I think all parents fight (; Nothing big.
     
  14. LightTiger

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    A FEW YEARS???

    Yeah, well they aren't exactly fighting.
     
  15. Freja

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    It's kinda hard to help when we don't know what's going on D:
    Anyways, I think it's very inconsiderate of your parents not to tell you what's going on - I would get very upset if my parents kept something from me even though I knew something was going on..
     
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    That means, your moms sleeping around. If your dad was depressed it would have been his fault. Just telling you straight up.
     
  17. Rix

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    ^ Don't listen to this douche..

    People argue. Sometimes it's stuff they can figure out, other times it's not.. I'd just spend more time with friends if I were you, and see if your parents can sort this stuff out.. It's not your fault at all (from what I can tell), people just don't always get along, so they argue. Hopefully this is just a phase...
     
  18. sorrowniteshade

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    Hey man, i know from personal experience of this situation. my parents got a divorce when i was 14 years old.
    They went through the fighting phase, and wouldnt tell a word of why or what, to me or my sister, it's hard man, it really is, but you just have to try to keep your mind off of things, or it will be harder for you.
    Hang with some friends, and just have fun, try to keep your mind off of the whole matter, things will straighten out on there own.
    Sometimes people don't love each other anymore, i know it sucks, but you just have to go through with it.
    I'm really sorry, your going through this, but just stay strong and be patient and things will get better for you.


    Edit: Not saying your parents are going to divorce or anything, just an example of what i went through.
     
  19. LightTiger

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    phewph, its pretty much better.

    my parents don't believe in divorcement...so that not the case...
     
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