I hate myself so much right now. I've met this great guy , we've been on a couple of dates. He slept here last night and just left. HE ALREADY BORES ME. I am so INSANELY picky when it comes to guys, do ONE thing that annoys me and I will not let it go.. So, do you know when you are in love? or do you have to work for it? my gosh the guys I've let go because of this, I am not sure whether to back out or work on it. What annoys me the most is that he is a bit shy. Like, I really want a dominating man and I feel like he is a bit insecure even though he is GORG. ARRRGH.
A man must accommodate to the girl he likes. I am a shy person too, I don't show emotions if I see the girl is neutral and expects me to the all the "right" stuff. It's kind of difficult but this thing must be talked with the person face 2 face. I would really fall for a girl who is beautiful and tells me to be more loving towards her [though it didn't happen] :kiss:
Yeah, I would definitely talk to him. If I decided I was gonna work on it. Because this isn't something I can just tell him and he will stop being shy Do you know what I mean? Plus I am not sure that I am in love with him like that or just a simple crush -.-
Well.. We've known each other for about six months now.. And we've talked alot o.o it's more lke he's so insecure he won't take iniatives if you know what I mean :/
Maybe tell him that? Not "I feel like you aren't manly enough LOOOOL" but just a 'hey, you should surprise me with something' or 'plan our next date.'
Depends on the man. Personally, I'm spontaneous enough to surprise any girl *cough* modesty! *cough* XD
Some men are just plain dense, or just plain shy. Sometimes who have to come right out and say it, and then they're more likely to get the picture. Just say what you want, or make bigger hints.