Who should make the first move?

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by ihateregister22, Aug 19, 2008.

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  1. Fauxtos

    Fauxtos Level I

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    Whoever is willing to do so.
    It's cute when the guy does it, though.
    <3
     
    #41 Fauxtos, Jan 3, 2009
  2. KeKNoRRiS

    KeKNoRRiS Level III

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    Atleast you appear willing to fauxtos :)
     
    #42 KeKNoRRiS, Jan 3, 2009
  3. neohacker

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    I agree with Icegoten. Whoever has the guts who is mostly the guy.
     
    #43 neohacker, Jan 3, 2009
  4. bladeoftalwar

    bladeoftalwar Level IV

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    cute?

    more like standard [...]
     
    #44 bladeoftalwar, Jan 3, 2009
  5. krilas

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    There really shouldn't be any stereotyping in this matter. If a person like the other, whether or not he or she makes the first move by confessing their true feelings, it would have already been pretty obvious in their actions towards the other before that already. Furthermore, I doubt anyone would want to make a first move and only be accepted because their feelings were made known instead of accepted because the other party loves them too.
     
    #45 krilas, Jan 5, 2009
  6. HerbalSoup

    HerbalSoup Newbie

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    Depends! But guys like it alot if a girl makes the first move.
     
    #46 HerbalSoup, Feb 23, 2012
  7. dawgi100

    dawgi100 Level I

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    I don't care how old school it is. Guys now and days are wimps and girls shouldn't let them get away with it. Girls MAKE THEM make the first move lol.
     
    #47 dawgi100, Mar 19, 2012
  8. brand123

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    It does seem more gentleman like for the boy to make the first move but I don't think it should matter that much.
     
    #48 brand123, May 9, 2012
  9. imperialdarknes

    imperialdarknes Level III

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    the guy should always make the first move
     
    #49 imperialdarknes, May 9, 2012
  10. cherished_luv

    cherished_luv Level I

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    I think they guy should make the first move. :yup:

    When I was younger, I would have never been caught dead making the first move. Nowadays I have made the first move a couple of times. I'm not so shy anymore lol, but I do prefer a guy to make the first move. :D
     
    #50 cherished_luv, May 9, 2012
  11. Sorolin

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    It would be more Romantic if the guy did it but now a-days girls need to grab the bull by the horns and go for it.
     
    #51 Sorolin, May 10, 2012
  12. Acorn

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    If there is a connection, I don't believe it matters who makes the first move.
     
    #52 Acorn, May 15, 2012
  13. ilovemycat

    ilovemycat Newbie

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    The guy definitely. If he isn't interested in me, then I'm not interested in him. I'm not going to waste my time trying to get a guy to like me by making the first move.
     
    #53 ilovemycat, Oct 14, 2012
  14. bunnykay

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    Whoever feels like making the first move... if the male is a little more shy, then the female will probably make the first move which is perfectly normal.
     
    #54 bunnykay, Dec 31, 2012
  15. whiteknife96

    whiteknife96 Level I

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    is the same.. but the guys..
     
    #55 whiteknife96, Jan 13, 2013
  16. nog_lorp

    nog_lorp Newbie

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    There isn't really such a thing as "the first move", unless someone is being insanely forward. (Hey you, wanna f---?)

    Normally, both people indicate attraction/interest to eachother prior to any overt gestures being made.
     
    #56 nog_lorp, Jan 18, 2013
  17. larryisamazing

    larryisamazing Level II

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    The girl just needs to give the right signals. If she seems closed off, most guys won't approach. If the guy is interested and still doesn't approach, well, you know the rest.
     
    #57 larryisamazing, Jan 18, 2013
  18. thedup

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    I'm pretty oldfashioned, as are most people I consider my closest friends, so the guy should make the first move
     
    #58 thedup, Jan 22, 2013
  19. lottgre1

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    Women think its even more attractive if the guy makes the first move, makes him seem more confident, coming from a guy who's been in a steady relationship for 2 years next month :)
     
    #59 lottgre1, Feb 1, 2013
  20. briannatardiff

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    the guy, cause he needs to be a man and step up :) lol
     
    #60 briannatardiff, May 7, 2013
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