No way, I hate it when people who are overweight complain about it and won't do anything about it. Either work out to change yourself or be happy with who you are. Complaining doesn't do anything.
I hate "adults" who still talk about other people's hair, clothes, behaviors, et cetera, like they're still in high school. Grow the F up or stop breathing my oxygen. And usually the person they're talking about, while being fashion-challenged or socially inept, is a really nice person, which to me makes them head-and-shoulders better than those talking about them and a whole lot of other people besides.
I hate when people think it's okay to dress like a homeless person just because they're a "good person." Since when do good people get a free pass to look terrible?
Warning, the content in the spoiler is pretty graphic, maybe NFSW and extremly personal. I'm not even sure if I should post it, but I think that it's rather important to let people know about these things. Mods may feel otherwise, and if so you should remove the message. But I still had to post it. Spoiler While this may be true, it's not so easy to put in practice. I was never overweight, but I was a bit chubby as a kid and kids teased me for this and started bullying me. I danced, went to soccer practice, hockey but was still chubby. As a teenager and young adult I was actually always at the correct bmi for my height and age, but due to skinny being in fashion, I would still get comments about how ugly and fat I was compared to my skinny friends who always got the girls and comments on how good they looked. So I decided to lose some weight and started working out. All the diets out there were so confusing and the only thing that happened for me was that I gained weight (mainly muscles, but that wasn't my goal), became more hungry and tired than ever. I had always complained about how it must have been my metabolism that was slow, but I thought that was due to my genes (which is a common misconception), since my friends could eat as much as they wanted out of pretty much everything. My problem was that I was raised to never leave anything on the plate ("Take all that you want, but eat all that you take") and that I wasn't doing the right kind of excercises. A few months later and I was sticking my head down the toilet on a regular basis and continued to do so for about a year. First I only did so when I ate something unhealthy, but after some time I couldn't keep anything down. I lost about 18kg that way, most of it during the first 4 months, but I soon became delerious and felt crazy. I had no idea what was real and what was not for a few months, my teeth started decaying. I became more and more isolated, started thinking that everyone was staring at me on the subway for no reason, had dreams of my body being all distorted, I couldn't drink alcohol because I felt drugged (not drunk) and I stopped going to school. I literally felt like I was in hell and was thinking of ending it all just to get away from the disorder. I had some periods where I tried to train instead of throwing up, but if I missed one training, I had to compensate the calories the "old way". I feel much better today, I eat right and excercise right. But I still know exactly the amount of calories in every single thing in my cupboard, and I'm scared as hell of anything sweet or fat. I have problem looking in the mirror and I still have to compensate for unhealthy food, but not in the same way as before, just by choosing a healthier snack the next day. I don't even know what a normal serving size is and have to check the guidlines on each package. When with my friends, I have to look at how much they eat to determine if I'm over-eating or not eating enough. Sorry for the long message, but I wanted to make it clear that it isn't easy to navigate through different diets and choosing a good one. It isnt easy to know what excercise will make you lose pounds instead of gaining them. So instead of "hating obese people who complain about their weight", help them lose the desired pounds the right way. Because it can so easily go wrong. I was lucky, I only lost a year. Most people lose much more than so and I can't even begin to think how much hell they must go through. The following statistics are regarding the US, since I can't find any worldwide or Swedish statistics: Female: -An estimated 10 per cent of female college students suffer from a clinical or sub-clinical (borderline) eating disorder, of which over half suffer from bulimia nervosa. Male: -5%-14% of males deliberately vomit after eating -12%-21% had a history of binge eating
I dunno. In this world, you can be a backstabbing crude a-hole, cheat on your spouse, and talk about all your coworkers and "friends" behind their backs, but as long as you dress nicely and know how to mingle, you'll be labelled normal. So a better question might be: what kind of a screwed up world are we living in?
It's very hard for me to watch American Idol because I have perfect pitch. LOL! Uhhh I really hate when I'm at a stop sign, and someone else stops too, and then I wave for them to go, but then they wave for me to go instead, so I start to go, and then they go.
Who said anything about normal? There's nothing wrong with criticizing someone's choice to wear something ugly. That's what this is about. Don't drag your baggage into this, seriously. Did someone hurt your feelings recently or something?
Hardly. I grew up in violence, was raised in it, and fought my way through it. So no sassy mouthed punk, bully, or inbred has hurt my feelings in a long time. But I sure enough saw and dealt with enough of them in my childhood to know the personality and mentality inside and out. And because of that upbringing, I now like to pick on people who pick on people. I don't like people who mentally never get out of high school. Or middle school... whenever you got started. Worrying about someone else's choice of clothes so much that you say you hate it is lame and childish. Period. Thinking you're better than anyone else because you look better or have better clothes is lame in the extreme. What makes a person better is having a good heart and basically not being the kind of person who is so insecure that they need to put down other people to feel better about themselves.
Okay but seriously, you need to calm down. I have a right to my opinion, and I say I hate leggings worn as pants. It's not like I'm criticizing someone's disability or something they have no control over. It's their choice to look a trash bag, and I'll comment accordingly. No one's talking about being better than anyone, so once again, that's your baggage. I'm not insecure at all, I have no problem complimenting someone when they're doing something right. Bad clothes happen to good people. It's not a big deal. So go enjoy your sleeveless t's and cut-off shorts, but don't sit here and tell me I'm a snob for telling you that you look like garbage. kthx.
Like I said, I grew up with this mess - so don't waste your time telling me what it is or isn't about when I already know. You'd have more luck convincing Jesse Jackson that he isn't black. And don't for a second confuse me with one of the downtrodden that you still pick on. I figured out who I was and claimed that despite the world's best attempts to keep me from doing it. I look so damn good that you'd sit right next to me in an office and whisper some comment to me about the new pudgy awkward guy, expecting me to giggle right along with you. What would actually happen would be significantly different. You did say one thing I liked. [6. Pale people who bash tan people just because they turn into lobsters when they attempt to get some color.] That's great. Sucks when they strike back, doesn't it?
Okay, I really hate it when people think they're better than everyone else -.- Not much bother me about other people though, because I usually tend to avoid them if I don't like them. It also annoys me when girls act stupid when they're not - it's not cute!! And people who get boring after they get a boy/girlfriend D: hey, I'm still here!