heartbroken. yay. dont read if you're a jerk

glad you feel ok if u need any help with personal stuff, just pm mer.

 

been in the situation a few times.
just look for new opportunity. personally, most music is about love, so i don't use it too much when i'm down.

watch your favorite tv show, hang out with friends. believe or not, homework can actually help too . Takes your mind off of it, and you're accomplishing something, which will help you in life.

 

How are you doing now, James? It's been a few days... feeling any better, I hope? :\

 

well i have never had a relationship before. but right now, i like someone,my classmate,and he doesn't have any idea.we are close friends. i really hate the feeling that i think he's mine but he's really not..darn.I hope he likes me just as much as you like your girlfriend...but i think he likes another, my other classmate.it kills me, but i can't tell anyone. :| anyways, i hope you would move on..that girl is wrong..she can't suddenly fall out of love.see you around james. oh and i read your post from top to bottom <3

 

Hmm tough one. The advice people have given you already seems pretty good and I do suggest following it.

What you need most is friends. It's the gut wrenching loneliness of losing someone so close to you, it's berevement whatever some people might say. Now friends give you something to take your mind off it and (if they are true friends) would stick through your moaning. (That wasn't a dig. I moan lots too )

Another thing is time. In a few months you'll start to feel better than you do at the moment. I realise that you feel like crap at this time, but don't go doing anything stupid. After all, if you had to try so hard to get her to notice you in the first place, would it really have lasted?

You're going college right? Would it have lasted through then? Maybe. But now you have the pleasure of (attempting ) to pull so many other girls...or maybe thats just my idea of college hehe.

On the other hand, do what I did. End up hating her guts Even after a year! It really makes you feel much better.

Chin up kid

 

tell him already. you gotta seize the opportunities whilst you can. Otherwise they go by fast ^_^

 

Naughty mod. You double posted.

*Waves naughty stick around* :yup:

 

I'm a bit slow, didn't notice this thread until today.
First of all, love trouble really sucks, it's the worst kind.
But the solution is pretty easy, just be more observant. Try to focus on small specific events in every day that are positive. If you see someone smile, try to keep that feeling for as long as you can, eventually you might just find one that changes life as you see it. =)
I had some problems a couple of years ago, but everything changed when I heared some stranger walking whistle some random tune. It might seem a bit weird, but since that I can't really get mad or sad for a long time, not even when really bad things happen. Because I just go think back to that night when that unknown person whistled, and the feeling I got. That I have friends and family that wants only what's best for me, that I have my health and that when something doesn't work out as I thought, I can't change it.
Try to look for small events like these, and I hope you'll get a similar experience as the one I had. =)

 

You can double post in spam~

 

I thought otherwise, sorry. I know this isn't really the place, but different mods seem to have different views about some of the rules.

Back on topic: I split up from my partner about 18 months ago (we'd been going out for 7 years), I still feel sucky. Not as bad as I did though. Time does help, but I think that a lot of people on here have given you some very sound advice. Just try to enjoy what you can at the moment, things will get better. Just keep saying that to yourself. Take up a new hobby! I found that by doing something new that I hadn't done before, it was a nice distraction and I could totally forget about everything else for a while, even a short while helps in the long run.

 

I know how you feel i moved away from my gf during a relationship

 

Alright you're 17 im guessing, therefore its not the end of the world. Just roll up to the club and smack some booty with your bare hand.

I hate emo's aswell theoe whiney fucks make people with depression feel even more embarrased about coming out it. I have depression, have for 3-4 years i take tablets and im all good.

 

For me it was just about knowing and telling myself that even if today was hard, and tomorrow might be hard, the one after that could be better.