I definatly think that we make our own choices and hold our own lives in our own hand. While I don't believe in 'destiny' or 'fate' I do recognize that things will always happen that are absolutely out of our control. As a result your life will change, and the life changes will dictate whatever choices you make in the future, which supports the whole destiny bit.
Definitally, Another thing that this post sparked my memory was about fate and such. I don't believe in fate or destiny, I think that is complete rubbish. BUT.. I do believe that life has a way of evening things out. It doesnt have to be mistifying or beyond us. Just that things even out. The universe evens out. Everything has a way of creating balence. Zen
I have lots of friends that believe in Karma, I, cynically, allways think bad things happen to good people :K
No, first of all, you can't just "think" something is going to happen you must believe it. And you can't sit around, it doesn't work that way. It's hard to explain, and most people will just laugh at me but I'm fine with that cuz I know it works =D If you want to know more about it look up "The Secret" it's a movie about it. It can change you life. I know, because it hanged mine.