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Looks or personality?

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by HeyLisa, Jan 27, 2011.

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  1. cherished_luv

    cherished_luv Level I

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    I go for personality mostly. Looks are nice but they're not the most important thing. :)
     
    #41 cherished_luv, May 9, 2012
  2. Acorn

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    30% looks
    70% personality

    Can't date someone hot if they do not have a personality...
     
    #42 Acorn, May 16, 2012
  3. ilovemycat

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    I feel that both are extremely important. I used to only be attracted to people because I liked their personality even though their looks wasn't exactly what I wanted. This led me to not fully liking them and feeling like something was missing. And then I found a person who initially attracted me because his looks and the fact that his personality was awesome was just a bonus. I've found that my attraction is much more complete to him and I don't feel like I'm settling anymore. So I guess looks > personality, but only just so because an ugly personality makes a person ugly.
     
    #43 ilovemycat, Oct 14, 2012
  4. Xanth

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    If you're good looking like me, you can just pick whichever personality you like from the group of hotties that know they want you. :3


    I'll go for looks first. If they look good? Great. Bad attitude? They're out. Then I'll move to the next person in the list. :D
     
    #44 Xanth, Oct 14, 2012
  5. bunnykay

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    People who say looks don't matter are lying. The truth is - looks DO matter but personality MATTERS MORE
     
    #45 bunnykay, Dec 31, 2012
  6. whiteknife96

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    both.. ir u seems good girl :$
     
    #46 whiteknife96, Jan 13, 2013
  7. briannatardiff

    briannatardiff Level I

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    I think you need a bit of both in order to be attracted to someone
     
    #47 briannatardiff, May 5, 2013
  8. nichjg

    nichjg Newbie

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    personality deffff~
    looks get boring after a while ahah
     
    #48 nichjg, Jun 11, 2013
  9. lawlz

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    I'm saying personality, but what I more mean is someone's confidence and how they carry themselves, which can go into looks. So a little bit of both?
     
    #49 lawlz, Jun 12, 2013
  10. winston_tiu

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    personality>looks, enough said.
     
    #50 winston_tiu, Jun 12, 2013
  11. tharning

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    For me, looks is always the first thing I notice and what initially attracts me to a girl, but after talking to her for a while, personality is always the deciding factor. That's probably why I ended up with the girl I married (we're both big gamers and she's introduced me to as many games as I've introduced her to).
     
    #51 tharning, Jul 8, 2013
  12. quirkyeffects

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    Looks are what attracts me to a person, but personality is what keeps me there. So I'll say personality over looks. Furthermore,I find that most people that I am attracted to may not even be that conventionally attractive, but they have wonderful personalities that give them a sort of inner beauty.
     
    #52 quirkyeffects, Jul 14, 2013
  13. crashtestdummies

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    Personality is more important. Oh, the stories I could tell. But then again, maybe they didn't have such a great personality after all.
     
    #53 crashtestdummies, Jul 17, 2013
  14. Atomic_Goose19

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    Looks do usually grab the boys attention initially but the personality is what I like.
     
    #54 Atomic_Goose19, Jul 17, 2013
  15. lanabubalo13

    lanabubalo13 Level II

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    Personality is the keeper. No matter how good looking someone is...if they're psycho, you gtfo asap haha
     
    #55 lanabubalo13, Jul 17, 2013
  16. eric11

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    Personality :)
     
    #56 eric11, Aug 10, 2013
  17. Nathan

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    Being perfectly honest, looks do play a bit of a role for me, but personality is still the major consideration for me.
     
    #57 Nathan, Aug 11, 2013
  18. Platypus

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    Looks are what usually get me interested first. Then I start seeking out the personality, and I revolve more around that.
     
    #58 Platypus, Aug 11, 2013
  19. 3dee

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    Looks bring me in, personality keeps me there.
     
    #59 3dee, Aug 15, 2013
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