Hahaha this topic is epic xD Well, for me, hair on the head is a definite must, for both genders. Ahaha. For a man, too much hair is a little... urgh, haha. For a woman, for stereotypes (I'm sorry, I have to conform .-.), it's best to keep it to a minimum ahaha.
Hair in the genital area for both males and female is OK as long as its trimmed often. If you don't like hair in that area then you have a problem LOL.
Hahaha, wow, this topic has gotten into me. On the train today, I thought this man was wearing stockings, when it was actually his leg hair. It was like a forest. I was traumatised. Oh no! ):
I'm not hairy. I have some on my legs but either than that I'm a pretty clean cut guy. Not much facial hair either, some, but nothing overwhelming. I like it, don't have to shave much or anything. Hair on girls, its a little weird but they don't get that hairy so it's fine.